Friday, June 26, 2009

The Traveler

A couple of weeks ago, I had the pleasure of spending a weekend date with my littlest man. I know...you are all jealous. He was a perfect gentleman. Of course, he's not big enough to open doors or pay the check, but he was courteous enough to travel 600 miles by car in approximately 48 hours, and did so without crying. Well, he may have cried once, but it was really more of a whimper. He spent much of the weekend like this:

Our weekend trip was in honor of this cute girl:(the one in pink) who is about to have her first child next month. Good luck Rachael! Thanks for giving Shauna and I the excuse to make the trip!

I enjoyed spending some time with only 25% of the number of kids I am usually juggling. Especially since this one is non-mobile still. I have realized that I have to force myself to remember to spend time with Cru. He's such a mellow little dude that he can get forgotten easily. He simply doesn't demand the attention. He gets fed (obviously) and gets his clothes and diapers changed, but he doesn't get nearly the attention he deserves. The curse of the fourth child, I suppose. Spending the whole weekend with just him was good for both of us. He thrived on the one on one time, and rewarded me with smiles, giggles, and coos galore.

It was a great opportunity to enjoy meeting up with friends that we don't see often enough. We also enjoyed delicious vietnamese egg rolls and Bun Cha. mmmmmmmmm, fish sauce.

One of my favorite moments of the weekend was when we first arrived at the house of Ruthie and Pat, who were hosting us. Their daughter Chloe, age 5, was staring at Cru. Finally she said, "Your baby is cute." I said, "Thanks. He has chunky cheeks doesn't he?" (She was obviously staring at his chunky cheeks). To which she replied, "And a chunky belly, and a chunky neck, and chunky legs..." I just had to laugh.

While I was gone, Rick and the kids spent the entire time pouting and crying and lamenting my absence. I'm sure that's what they were doing while they:

  • went to a movie
  • went to jumpin jacks
  • went to pirate island pizza
  • went to the builder's workshop at home depot
  • went to Del Taco

Seriously, my kids are already begging for me to take a "mommy weekend" again.

Thanks Shauna for doing the driving, and for listening to me chat.

Thanks Pat and Ruth for housing us.

Thanks Rachael for the baby growing.

Thanks Carly and Katie for the super fun shower.

Thanks Tommy and Kristi for the cookies and visit (albeit too short).

Thanks Rick for wrangling the other children at home.

Thanks Shanghai Cafe for the delicious food.

Thanks Eliana for the impromptu song about "Restaurant Manners".

Thanks Cru, for being such a sweetie, so that I could enjoy it all!

7 comments:

Johnny said...

Well it sounds like you had a great trip. I didn't even recognize Rachael at first. The part about Cru's chunkiness had me laughing out loud.

Heidi said...

I ran into Rick and the kids at the Home Depot workshop. My hubby was at work, so I was alone, too. He got there after I did and left way before I did. He's obviously better at the "building" thing than I am! I don't think any of your kids fell and scraped their face on the table (like mine did), so Rick obviously did a good job!

Heather said...

Sounds like you had a great weekend away...may Cru always stay this sweet. :)

Amy said...

Fun for you!! He's a pretty handsome date :) Since your kids didn't miss you too much you'll have a good excuse to go again!

Rachael said...

Thank YOU Megan for driving 600 miles in 48 hours to make it to my baby shower. I couldn't have a proper baby shower without one of my old room-mates bringing up the fact that I once questioned her whether she ever worried about one day waking up and finding out that she was a lesbian! I llove you!!

Maegan said...

He is a cute little chunky man and you look so beautiful in the top pic, like it a lot!

jenney said...

I'm so glad you got some one-on-one time with your little man!